Nov 30

One of the special day that we should celebrate is our birthday. And today, it is a joy to celebrate Michelle’s birthday. As I reflected back on her life, I realized that she has grown up to be a strong and mature lady. I praised and thanked God for molding her to be who she is now. I am indeed blessed to be given the responsibility and privilege of knowing and sharing my life with her.

Now, I am not saying that she is perfect in every way although that might cause her to float on air. She has many things that still need lots of improvement. But then, everybody on this earth also are far from being perfect. What is more important is counting the blessings or good things about her. And thinking of the good thing about her makes me realized that I am truly blessed.

I am still discovering her everyday. There are new things that emerges from her from time to time and this makes our married life an interesting one.

To you my dearest darling, the greatest wife on earth, I want to wish you, “Happy Birthday” and “I LOVE YOU”…still… hehehe.

Nov 30

Of all the nuts that I have eaten before, my favorite is Almond. I am not good at describing food but if you have eaten before, especially those in chocolates, I am sure you would like it too. A few times when someone or wifey buys me Almond Chocolate, I will break the chocolate and eat the Almond only. The chocolate will go to my children’s tummy. LOL!

I found some interesting fact about the goodness of Almond. And I am glad that I like Almond coz it helps to reduce my cholesterol level. My siblings tend to easily get high cholesterol.

Read this:

In addition to their cholesterol-lowering effects, almonds’ ability to reduce heart disease risk may also be partly due to the antioxidant action of the vitamin E found in the almonds, as well as to the LDL-lowering effect of almonds’ monounsaturated fats. (LDL is the form of cholesterol that has been linked to atherosclerosis and heart disease). When almonds are substituted for more traditional fats in human feeding trials, LDL cholesterol can be reduced from 8 to 12%. ~ Source

I am sure gonna get a packet of Almond to munch after this. :)

Nov 29

Having to move house can be a difficult and trying time. There are so many things to plan and do before the actual moving took place. What we need to do is not to worry but to take each matter one at time. We do not want to get easily upset when there are so many things yet to be done. A mind free of worries would make the transition much easier. Hmm… why am I writing about moving house?. Oh ya.

My older brother is moving back into the house. When he got married, he and his wife decided to move out and stay on their own. It was the wish of our mother that he could stay in the house to help out and also to provide company for her. However, since they decided to move out, there is nothing that we can do about it. Now, he told me that he plans to move in back to the house.

He also decided to renovate one of the rooms in our house to make it bigger. I guess he has a lot of things to bring back from his old house. Maybe he would need to use the removal services to bring all his things back here. There are many removal companies like MoveMe! that provides excellent moving services for those who need to move house like my brother. If my brother engages them, then I would not have to bend my back to help him out. Everything will be handled by the moving company. Looks like life in the house will change again.

Nov 28

Relationship is a very complicated thing. We have our own views, perceptions, likings and what not. We want companionship and yet we also want freedom. And if we do not manage the two sides of our wants and our responsibilities in marriage, it could lead to disaster. And it is a continuous process as long as we are alive. Give and take, humility, sacrifice, accepting one another, suffering, joy, happiness, secured, and many other words can describe the marriage.

Okaylah… just to lighten up the day, here is one humor about marriage.

Prior to our wedding, David and I met with the minister to discuss our marriage ceremony and various traditions, such as lighting the unity candle from two individual candles.
Couples usually blow out the two candles as a sign of becoming one. Our minister said that many people were now leaving their individual candles lit to signify independence and personal freedom. He asked if we wanted to extinguish our candles or leave them burning.
After thinking about it, David replied, “How about if we leave mine lit and blow out hers?”

Nov 23

One of the ways man has been creative is in the world of sports. The fact that we have so many types of games shows the creativity characteristic of man. Almost everywhere we go, we can find some form of game that people play. It is this creative characteristic that God has imputed to us that enables us to create various games. Sometimes, even the children can create new games when they are playing in a group. Or they would add in new rules or new variations to the existing game.

Take baseball game for instance. Do you know that this game has evolved tremendously? Yes, the basic rule is still the same, i.e. you hit the ball with a baseball bat. However, in the past, the players catch the ball with bare hands. Now, we have all the equipments to make the game safer and fun to play. If you don’t believe me, go buy yourself the New York Yankees Spring Training tickets and see how the players play. Try and observe any kind of creative skills that the players display when they are playing. Don’t know where to look for? Well, try observing their techniques and you will be amazed.

Nov 23

Some people lamented that they are not creative. Well, I don’t think that is true. I believes that all have been created with a creative mind. The reason is simple. We are created by a creative God. And since we are created in His image, the creative aspect/characteristic of God was also imputed to us. And this creative characteristic can be seen everywhere.

However, this creative characteristic can be used positively and even negatively. Some may have a higher degree of creativity in them but all of us do have the creativity characteristic in us. So be creative and use this characteristic that God has given to us in a positive way.

Nov 22

In the previous post, the article talks about 911 disaster in particular. We too may have our own questions regarding what is happening around us. There are some of us who have experienced loss of loved ones, hardship, cruelty, injustice, and many more evil things. We may be wondering why does god allow suffering. And it is indeed a valid question to ask. Many times I too asked why does God allow pain and suffering especially when there is problem in my life.

It is okay to ask such questions to God. However, it is unhealthy to just leave it unanswered. It can create bitterness in our heart. Bitterness have been identified to be the catalyst if not the cause of many sicknesses. I have found the answers to most of my questions about God and suffering. If you want to find out the answers to this question of “Why would God allows suffering?”, may I suggest that you attend the Alpha Course: Questions of Life. There are many Alpha course offered around the world in most countries so do search online or just click on the link in this post.

Nov 22

A prominent American’s daughter was interviewed on the Early Show and Jane Clayson asked her “How could God let something like this happen?”

(Regarding the attacks on September 11)

Anne Graham gave an extremely profound and insightful response.

She said, “I believe God is deeply saddened by this, just as we are, but for years we’ve been telling God to get out of our schools, to get out of our government and to get out of our lives. And being the gentleman He is,I believe He has calmly backed out. How can we expect God to give us His blessing and His protection if we demand He leave us alone?”

In light of recent events…terrorists attack, school shootings, etc, I think it started when Madeleine Murray O’Hare (she was murdered, her body
found recently) complained she didn’t want prayer in our schools, and we said OK. Then someone said you better not read the Bible in school…
the Bible says thou shalt not kill, thou shalt not steal, and love your neighbor as yourself.

And we said OK.

Then Dr. Benjamin Spock said we shouldn’t spank our children when they misbehave because their little personalities would be warped and we might
damage their self-esteem (Dr. Spock’s son committed suicide). We said an expert should know what he’s talking about.

And we said OK.

Then someone said teachers and principals better not discipline our children when they misbehave. The school administrators said no faculty
member in this school better touch a student when they misbehave because we don’t want any bad publicity, and we surely don’t want to be sued (there’s a big difference between disciplining, touching, beating, smacking, humiliating, kicking, etc.)

And we said OK.

Then someone said, let’s let our daughters have abortions if they want, and they won’t even have to tell their parents.

And we said OK.

Then some wise school board member said, since boys will be boys and they’re going to do it anyway, let’s give our sons all the condoms they
want so they can have all the fun they desire, and we won’t have to tell their parents they got them at school.

And we said OK.

Then some of our top elected officials said it doesn’t matter what we do in private as long as we do our jobs. Agreeing with them, we said it doesn’t
matter to me what anyone, including the President, does in private as long as I have a job and the economy is good.

Then someone said let’s print magazines with pictures of nude women and call it wholesome, down-to-earth appreciation for the beauty of the female body.

And we said OK.

And then someone else took that appreciation a step further and published pictures of nude children and then further again by making them available on the Internet.

And we said OK, they’re entitled to free speech.

Then the entertainment industry said, let’s make TV shows and movies that promote profanity, violence, and illicit sex. Let’s record music that
encourages rape, drugs, murder, suicide, and satanic themes. And we said it’s just entertainment, it has no adverse effect, nobody takes it seriously anyway, so go right ahead.

Now we’re asking ourselves why our children have no conscience, why they don’t know right from wrong, and why it doesn’t bother them to kill
strangers, their classmates, and themselves.

Probably, if we think about it long and hard enough, we can figure it out.

I think it has a great deal to do with

“WE REAP WHAT WE SOW.”

Nov 20
Don’t worry
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One of the issues that people always worry is about money. Yes, that is true. Lack of money could be the main cause of grey hair and depression. When there is not enough money to spend, they overuse their credit card. The problem arises when the income is not enough to pay the credit card. That’s where they will get bad credit listing.

No matter what happens, one should not worry about the matter. Worrying would not in any way solve the problem. In fact, worrying cause more problems to the existing one. Instead of worrying about not being able to pay, one can consider bad credit loans. Yes, taking up another loans would not be the best ideal solutions but it can help you for that period of time. Use the loan to plan well your monthly expenses.

Nov 20

Each one of us has the emotional tank. We need to fill up our emotional tank so that we would not feel dry and depressed. One of the ways to fill up our emotional tank is to go for a holiday at beautiful place. You can gaze at beautiful lake like in this picture and fill up your emotional tank.

beautiful lake

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